Sunday, May 30, 2010

A Tribute to all Military Wives & Mothers




God bless all military men, wives and children! To all you women out there giving your men freely to protect the lives of others...I truly thank you and there will be a more biblical response during July 4th week on this topic! For now know that your unselfish labor of love for others does not go unnoticed! Love you all...

I found this and thought it was so fitting for the Military Wives and Momma's this Memorials day:

Other spouses get married and look forward
to building equity in a home and putting down family roots.
Military spouses get married
and know they'll live in base housing or rent,
and their roots must be short
so they can be transplanted frequently.

Other spouses decorate a home
with flair and personality that will last a lifetime.
Military spouses decorate a home with flare
tempered with the knowledge that no two base houses
have the same size windows or same size rooms.
Curtains have to be flexible and multiple sets are a plus.
Furniture must fit like puzzle pieces.

Other spouses have living rooms
that are immaculate and seldom used.
Military spouses have immaculate living room/dining room combos.
The coffee table gota scratch or two moving from Germany,
but it still looks pretty good.

Other spouses say good-bye to their spouse for a business trip
and know they won't see them for a week.
They are lonely, but can survive.
Military spouses say good-bye to their deploying spouse and
know they won't see them for months, or for a remote, a year.
They are lonely, but will survive.

Other spouses, when a washer hose blows off, call Maytag
and then write a check out for getting the hose reconnected.
Military spouses will cut the water off and fix it themselves.

Other spouses get used to saying "hello"
to friends they see all the time.
Military spouses get used to saying "good-bye"
to friends made the last two years.

Other spouses worry about whether their child
will be class president next year.
Military spouses worry about whether their child
will be accepted in yet another new school next year and
whether that school will be the worst in the city ... again.

Other spouses can count on spouse participation
in special events ... birthdays, anniversaries, concerts,
football games, graduation,
and even the birth of a child.
Military spouses only count on each other;
because they realize that
the Flag has to come first if freedom is to survive.
It has to be that way.

Other spouses put up yellow ribbons
when the troops are imperiled across the globe
and take them down when the troops come home.
Military spouses wear yellow ribbons around their hearts
and they never go away.

Other spouses worry about being late
for mom's Thanksgiving dinner.
Military spouses worry about getting back from Japan
in time for dad's funeral.

And other spouses are touched by the television program
showing an elderly lady putting a card down
in front of a long, black wall that has names on it.
The card simply says "Happy Birthday, Sweetheart.
You would have been sixty today."
A military spouse is the lady with the card.
And the wall is the Vietnam Memorial.

I would never say military spouses are better or worse
than other spouses are.
But I will say there is a difference.
And I will say that our country asks more of military spouses
than is asked of other spouses.
And I will say without hesitation,
that military spouses pay just as high a price for freedom
as do their active duty husbands or wives.
Perhaps the price they pay is even higher.
Dying in service to our country isn't nearly as hard
as loving someone who has died in service to our country
and having to live without them.

God bless our military spouses for All
they freely give!

Author Unknown

Thursday, May 20, 2010

An unexcepted SuRpRiSe!!!!


This morning I found Xavier squatting to his usual "poop" stand....I ran and took his hand quickly to have him sit on the potty, before he started doing the deed in his diaper.

He was absolutely excited to be on the potty for the first time. He kept saying "Momma, Momma" as he seemed a little frightened. I knew he hadn't done anything so I had him wait and sit a little while longer to ensure at least he knew sitting on the potty is not a quick process sometimes. But, like any parent would do I sat near him and held his hand.



So, after sitting there for a good amount of time I proceeded to get him off and put back on his diaper....What an unexpected surprise he went POOP in the potty. YAY! I remember Elijah would do anything BUT that for forever and a day!!!! I am not to hopeful that he will keep this up BUT at least he has gotten exposed to it... I guess.

It's kinda gross but reminds me of our relationships sometimes with God! We proceed to start in our usual squat, fully aware that what we are about to do is a pattern that will lead to contamination of our souls! We see that we are in the same position that we usually are in (for Xavier it was squatting,) but for you it may be to go to the fridge after that fight and just eat. Or, maybe it's going to your "alone" place to cry or have a pity party, or becoming that busy body so that you don't have time to read your bible or pray. It is easier to just start in our familiar routines, or squatting stance, and then deal with the clean up later; when your in the mood to be "spiritual" again!


Isn't it our loving God who waits by us, holding our hands. We sometimes think that we must wait for God to grab us spiritually by the hearts when it is the opposite. He is always there it is our sinful nature that blinds us from His goodness. We must grab a hold of His heart that leads us to lay all our burdens and cares upon him! He is so patient with us, waiting beside us while we fight the process to get rid of all the waste in our minds and hearts!

2CORINTHIANS 12:9
9 But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that l the power of Christ may rest upon me.

But just like Xavier learned today obeying his leadership over him resulted in him feeling better and ultimately pleasing his Mother. That gave him so much joy and relief! How much should we be seeking to please and bring glory to our Father in times of confusion, frustration and uncertainty? Walking this journey called life is a scary thought, but continue to call "Father, Father." What an unexpected surprise it is when a wife stops being resentful towards her role in the family. When a Mother can stop being unloving and when a friend can look past others faults!

PHILPIANS3:!3-14
13 one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Phil. 3:13-14)

What unexpected surprise to not only feel JOY but be JOYFUL in spite of whatever is going on around you! God longs for that kind of peace for you today.... Seek Him and beg Him to restore you to the woman He wants you to be for His glory!

I encourage you today to stop following into those same patterns your use to. Let go of being in control and realize that God desires to make you a new creature (2 Cor. 5:17) that you couldn't even image you could be!

The sum of all our goods,
and our perfect good,
is God.
We must not fall short of this,
nor seek anything beyond it;
the first is dangerous,
the other impossible.
S T. AU G U S T I N E

Friday, May 7, 2010

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